Spiritual Direction

Thursday, February 20, 2025

Death Watch



After my mother died,
I took comfort in dry leaves
turning to duff on the forest floor.
She loved the sea, but I
couldn't go there to spread
what was left of her. I
lowered the last ashes 
into the river,
trusting the current 
to take her where she
most wanted to be.

After my friend died,
it took her weeks to die and I 
sat with her through it all,
no one wanted
her remains.
I spread them
beneath her roses,
and some I tossed into the air
of my own garden,
hoping for blessing,
like Galadriel's dust.

Where do you scatter the ashes
of a nation?



6 comments:

  1. Where indeed. I’m heartbroken for what’s unfolding. I’ll seek refuge in the natural world, and creative work. I’ve been attempting to share what I know before my time is up. But fewer and fewer Americans care about either of these.

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    1. Yet, sharing what we know is still important work and sometimes it even sticks! Thanks for being there.

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  2. Ann, this says everything. Precisely pertinent. So good.

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  3. Thanks so much Stephen. I always appreciate your good word to me!

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  4. Wow, your ability to put such thoughts into words always amazes me. Thank you for helping me feel WITH you. Sometimes they are new feelings that I hadn't noticed before. Sometimes, like now, the feelings existed in me without eloquent words to express them.

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  5. Thanks so much, Janet. What you wrote is one of the most meaningful responses I have received about my writing and affirms the 'why' of why I keep at it. Thanks again!

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